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Kalata Yochokera ku Banja la Tom kwa “Makolo” Onse
- Okondedwa Amalonda:Moni!Mukathira mbale ya chakudya chofunda cha kambuku kakang'ono kunyumba, kuumitsa mapazi ake onyowa, kuyeretsa bokosi la zinyalala nthawi zonse, kapena kudzutsidwa ndi mutu wake wofewa ukukukhudzani pakati pa usiku, muyenera kumvadi, monga momwe timamvera, kukoma mtima ndi mgwirizano wobisika mu mawu akuti "kholo la ubweya". Kuyambira pachiyambi chake, Banja la Tom ladziika lokha ngati bwenzi la mabanja onse a ubweya. Timamvetsetsa chikondi chanu pa ana anu a ubweya, komanso makamaka, malingaliro ang'onoang'ono obisika mkati mwa chikondi chimenecho.Kodi mukukumbukirabe nthawi yoyamba yomwe munabweretsa mwana wanu waubweya kunyumba? Mwina anali atakumbatirana akunjenjemera m'bokosi la katoni, kapena kugwedeza mchira wake ukukukumbatirani m'manja mwanu. Nthawi imeneyo, kutentha kwa dzanja lanu kunakhala chitetezo chake chonse padziko lapansi, ndipo maso ake onyowa, owala anasanduka chitonthozo ndi chikhumbo chomwe chinakutsatani masiku osawerengeka akubwera. Kuyambira tsiku limenelo, munayamba kuphunzira kuwerenga chilichonse chomwe chinali nacho: chikakuzungulirani, chikupempha kuti akukumbatireni; chikatenga chidole chake ndikuchigwetsa pamapazi anu, chikuyesera kugawana chisangalalo; chikagona mwadzidzidzi mopanda chidwi, mtima wanu umadumphadumpha ndi nkhawa nthawi yomweyo. Mtundu uwu wa "nkhawa yosalekeza" ndi katundu wapadera wa makolo a ubweya, ndipo ndichifukwa chake Banja la Tom limatsatira zomwe linkafuna poyamba.
Masiku omwe munkayenda ndi ana anu aubweya, muyenera kuti munakumana ndi mavuto ambiri: kugula chakudya chosayenerera chomwe chimayambitsa ndowe zofewa, kusankha mahatchi osakwanira omwe amapangitsa kuyenda kukhala kovuta, kusunga zoseweretsa zokongola koma zopanda ntchito zomwe zinatayidwa patatha mphindi zitatu zosangalatsa, kapena kusankha mtundu wolakwika wa zinyalala za amphaka ndikumva wopanda thandizo pamene mukuziyang'ana monyoza. Timamvetsetsa bwino kuti kholo lililonse laubweya limafuna kupereka zabwino kwambiri kwa ziweto zawo zokondedwa, koma nthawi zambiri limamva kutopa ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zinthu zomwe zili pamsika. Ichi ndichifukwa chake Tom's Family yaika "ubwino" ndi "kuyenerera" mu DNA yeniyeni ya gulu lathu. Tasonkhanitsa gulu lofufuza la akatswiri lomwe limayang'anira ndi kusamalira ziweto, ndipo takonza chinthu chilichonse mobwerezabwereza kuti chikwaniritse zosowa za ana aubweya azaka zosiyanasiyana komanso matenda osiyanasiyana. Sitikufuna kuti muvutike ndi funso lakuti "chomwe mungasankhe"; tikungofuna kuti chinthu chilichonse cha Tom's Family chikhale chonyamulira chodalirika cha chikondi chanu kwa ana anu aubweya.
Moyo wa mwana waubweya ndi waufupi—waufupi kwambiri moti sungayende nafe kwa nthawi yoposa mphindi imodzi. Koma chikondi cha mwana waubweya ndi chopanda malire—chokwanira kudzaza mitima yathu yonse. Amasintha moyo wathu wonse kukhala wokhulupirika kwa zaka khumi ndi ziwiri za ubale wathu. Chikondi ichi ndi mgwirizano wamtengo wapatali kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi. Banja la Tom likufunitsitsa kukhala thandizi lanu lolimba kwambiri paulendo wanu wolera ziweto. Kaya mnzanu waubweya ndi wachinyamata wokangalika komanso wosewera, wamkulu wamphamvu, kapena wokalamba wofatsa komanso wodekha, titha kupereka zinthu ndi ntchito zopangidwira inu ndi mwana wanu waubweya pa gawo lililonse la moyo.
Taona nkhani zambiri zokhudza mtima pakati pa ana a ubweya ndi eni ake: ogwira ntchito m'maofesi omwe amathamangira kunyumba tsiku lililonse, akulimba mtima kupita m'misewu yodzaza ndi anthu kuti akakumbatire amphaka awo okha; opulumutsa omwe amasamalira nyama zosochera tsiku ndi tsiku, kuwapatsa malo obisala ku mphepo ndi mvula. Chikondi chomwe chili m'nkhaniyi sichimadziwa malire a mtundu kapena mtengo wake—chimangonena za kuona mtima. Banja la Tom likuyembekezeranso kupereka chikondichi m'njira yathu.
- Chifukwa chake, m'masiku akubwerawa, Banja la Tom lipitiliza kuzika mizu yathu mumakampani opanga ziweto, nthawi zonse kupanga zinthu zatsopano komanso kukonza ntchito. Tikukhulupiriranso kuti tidzakhala ndi mwayi komanso kuthekera kogwirizana ndi mabungwe opulumutsa anthu mdziko lonselo kuti tiyambe zopereka zachifundo, kumanga nyumba zachikondi za ana osochera aubweya; kuchititsa misonkhano yaulere yosamalira ziweto, kuthandiza obwereketsa atsopano kupewa misampha yofala; ndikukhazikitsa njira yolankhulirana zaumoyo wa ziweto, komwe akatswiri azaumoyo amatha kuyankha mafunso anu. Chifukwa tikudziwa kuti kukonda ana obwereketsa si ntchito ya munthu mmodzi - ndi njira yabwino yolumikizirana pakati pa gulu la mizimu yogwirizana. Banja la Tom nthawi zonse lidzakhala limodzi ndi obwereketsa onse, kuteteza ubale wabwino pakati pa ana obwereketsa ndi eni ake. Mwana aliyense wobwereketsa azichitiridwa mwachikondi, ndipo wobwereketsa aliyense alandire chimwemwe chochuluka kuchokera paulendo wokhala naye limodzi.Pomaliza, tikufuna kuuza aliyense amene akufuna kukwatira kuti: Simukupereka chilichonse. Mumapatsa mwana wanu waubweya nyumba, ndipo potero, amakuchiritsani moyo wanu wonse.Ndi chikondi kwa inu ndi ana anu aubweya.
